Developing A Non-Complaining Attitude

While surfing the Internet a few years ago, I read about a preacher who gave what seemed to be an impossible challenge to his congregation — to go 21 days without complaining. Special made bracelets were distributed to participants as a reminder to live complaint-free lives. As a result, a movement was started, and millions of bracelets have been distributed all throughout the world.

The biblical principle, “Do all things without complaining and disputing” (Philippians 2:14) is an important one. Because of their constant complaining in the wilderness, ancient Israel was judged by God. As a result, they were not allowed to enter the Promised Land (Numbers 14:1-5; Numbers 14:26-39; cf. 1 Corinthians 10:10-12).

Let us ask ourselves, “How can we learn to develop a non-complaining attitude that will please the Lord?”

1) By controlling our thoughts (Romans 12:2; 2 Corinthians 10:4-5; Philippians 4:8-9), meditating on Scripture (Psalm 1:1-2), and remembering our "blessings" in Christ (Ephesians 1:3).

2) By confessing our critical spirit and committing ourselves to obedience each time we fall short of God’s standard (1 John 1:9; cf. Psalm 32:5).

3) By enlisting God’s help and the help of others (James 1:2-7; Colossians 1:3-12). As we meditate on God’s word, God will strengthen us as we depend on Him (Psalm 1:1-2; Proverbs 3:5-6).

Beloved, with God’s help, daily living without complaining is not an impossible challenge.

—Mike Riley, Gospel Snippets